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ORERB-017 - . I live with my parents, and my father is often away due to his railway job, resulting in limited time together. My parents frequently argue, which complicates my study time even though I have a dedicated home study area. I often feel the need to escape from the mental pressure of such an environment. Sufficient sleep, which is essential for a healthy routine, is impossible due to the constant quarrels. My emotional well-being is severely affected, leading to feelings of frustration and vulnerability. By engaging in consistent habits, I can maintain a healthy mental state and avoid overwhelming periods. Additionally, managing my online time effectively ensures that I utilize time for activities like body building and singing, making me more active and productive. Obtaining a dedicated study space requires moving out, but my parents may oppose this. My father, who is home only occasionally, likely wants me to stay with him. However, I do not want to be permanently fenced with my mother, especially considering the frequent altercations. My mother, deeply invested in her job, hints at wanting me to stay with her. However, I do not want to be owned by her, even if she contributes to certain financial aspects. My goal is to lead a healthy and productive lifestyle by being physically active and spending time online wisely. To determine whether I should stay with my mother, I need to assess whether my father will contribute financially to my future needs. My father has kindly offered to fund my university expenses, which supports my academic journey. However, on the other hand, I will also need to assess whether I can more firmly pursue my academic interests with the assistance of my father who may end up authorizing me financially in the future. Therefore, I need to determine whether it would be better for me to stay with my father because he trusts that I can effectively manage my overall expenses. In essence, I need to determine whether it would be better for me to stay with my father because he is understanding of what goes on in life, and I believe that I can make a better judgment with him about what is best for me overall. To achieve that, I need to choose whether I should stay with my mother, or stay with my father. The objective is to ensure that I am able to lead a healthy and productive lifestyle by being physically active and spending time online wisely.
2020年7月1日